As U.S. embassies evacuate and military bases brace for impact, a familiar question resurfaces: Are we on the brink of war with Iran?
This week, the U.S. began shrinking its diplomatic and military footprint across the Middle East, a preemptive move amid fears of an imminent Israeli strike on Iranâs nuclear facilities. Nonessential personnel are being pulled from Iraq. Military families are being offered voluntary departure across the region. And emergency action committees are lighting up cables between Washington and missions from Baghdad to Baku.
It figures that, of course, tensions would flare as my husband and I finally take our honeymoon, six months after our wedding, here in Aruba, country number 94 on my journey to 100. For the first time in years, I left my laptop behind. So yes Iâm filing via the Substack app on my phone. If the formatting is funny, itâs my first time trying this.
Back in Washington, I recently found myself in urgent care. The nurse checking my vitals had a Persian name. She recognized mine, too.
She had just fled Iran.
A decorated doctor who treated the wounded during the 2022 Woman, Life, Freedom protests, she had been interrogated and threatened by Iranâs Ministry of Intelligence. Her crime? Healing people. Now, she is starting over in exile. Grateful for safety. Longing for home.
Until I lived across the Persian Gulf from my fatherâs homeland, I never fully understood the word exile. I was born in America. My mother is Sicilian-American. I didnât even realize I was âotherâ until I was six and learning Farsi to speak to my aunt, a war refugee who didnât speak English.
This year, during Nowruz, the Persian New Year, I felt something shift. I was filled with rage. As the regime cracked down on Iranians dancing in the streets, I found myself dancing alone in protest. Joy, it seems, has become a revolutionary act.
And itâs working.
Iranâs regime thrives on what I call the politics of sadness, if youâre too broke, tired, or depressed to fight back, youâre not a threat. But when everything is stripped away, whatâs left can be explosive. Whatâs more dangerous than a population with nothing left to lose?
A source inside Iran recently told me: âI havenât had power five out of seven days. Two to four hours of electricity a day. My computer adapter is fried. My refrigerator broke, not because it was old, but because the power kept shorting out. I lost $400 worth of food. Thatâs two monthsâ salary for most people here.â
And theyâre not alone. A nationwide truck driversâ strike is spreading. The regime is threatening arrests. But the people are cheering them on. In video after video, they say âdamet garmâ â more power to you.
These arenât hypotheticals. These are the ingredients of a revolution.
Retired Marine General James L. Jones, who served as President Obamaâs national security advisor during Iranâs 2009 Green Movement, recently told me:
â2025 announces itself, potentially, as a year when the Iranian people rise up to remove the regime that has not only worsened their lives, but destabilized the entire region for decades.â
He added:
âThe regimeâs crimes against humanity are a matter of record. Their determination to develop a nuclear weapon capability is clear. And it would be a mistake for Tehran to conclude that there will be no kinetic consequences for their historically predictable behavior.â
So what is the Trump administration doing?
Theyâre pulling out diplomats. Cancelling summer travel for military families. And pressing pause on a nuclear deal that once seemed within reach.
And maybe thatâs smart.
Trumpâs negotiator Steve Witkoff was supposed to meet Iranâs foreign minister Abbas Araghchi in Oman this week. That may now be off the table. Trump says heâs âless confidentâ than before. But he also knows Iran is teetering.
This moment is about more than uranium enrichment. Itâs about narrative collapse. When I was reporting for my Iran vs. Israel documentary, I asked Iranian officials why they were at war with Israel. Their answer was one word: Palestine. I explored this in my latest Semafor column: âA Trump Deal for Palestine Could Tame Iranâs Regimeâ. Of course iranian regional expansionism is about more than Palestine, but hereâs the strategic question Trump should be asking: if a Palestinian state were created, does Iran lose its justification to keep attacking Israel?
A fast deal isnât the answer: the right one, or none at all, might be.
Letâs be clear: legitimizing this regime with sanctions relief or vague promises is dangerous. We know who weâre dealing with.
Take the story of Neda, a survivor of the Evin Prison fire. Her story is being told in a forthcoming animated documentary called That Night, directed by Hoda Sobhani, and one Iâm proud to help amplify. Because animation is the only safe way to tell these stories. Filming openly would get someone killed.
At this yearâs Cannes Film Festival, Iranian director Jafar Panahi, long banned from filmmaking and travel, made a defiant return with It Was Just an Accident, a political thriller inspired by his own imprisonment. He won the Palme dâOr. The world is starting to listen.
And maybe, just maybe, 2025 will be the year Iranâs regime finally falls. Maybe, like the battle cry sparked by Mahsa Aminiâs death, the next uprising will come from a broken fridge, spoiled food, and a nation that refuses to accept that as normal.
Because joy is a threat. And Iranâs people? Theyâre done being sad.